It’s
an old saying that some folks “look at life
through rose colored glasses.” No doubt
that is true and it is not always a bad
thing. But it can be detrimental when the
“rose colored glasses” shade out reality
preventing actions that need to be taken
that can bring improvement and order to our
lives.
Actually, we
look through different lenses at different
times in our lives. As children (unless we
were subjected to some trauma early in our
lives), we saw the world as our huckleberry
just waiting to be picked by us and
savored. As we looked through our rose
colored glasses, we felt everything would
always be all right. Since I became
acquainted with the Lord at a very young
age, I knew that He was in control of
everything and expected that the rest of
life would be just wonderful. That was
comforting to a child, but unrealistic as I
became an adult. The world had many who had
a different view, and I would be coming in
contact with them; they would have an effect
on my life and influence circumstances that,
as a child, I would not have expected.
That’s life, and life is not always fair.
As we mature
and see that life consists of good and bad
choices, we have to lighten the shade of our
lenses. The Lord will still be there to
inspire right decisions and light the best
path to travel, but we will have come under
different influences and experiences which
require life-changing decisions. At times
we have made good decisions and are blessed;
sometimes bad ones with unpleasant
circumstances; and we discovered that we are
responsible for the outcome.
We meet
others with many different lenses in their
outlook glasses. If life’s paths take them
into experiences beyond their control that
leave them scarred and battered, they might
change their lenses to see a self-pity
view. They could become pessimists who
look through glasses which have dark lenses
that block out the light of improvement.
Nothing is right and their expectations are
always negative and they feel “poor me.”
Our prolonged exposure to their view will
eventually affect the way we see life.
While we can love and pray for them and
respect how they feel, it would not be wise
to form a close relationship with them, lest
we become infected.
Often times,
we allow our own choices to take us into a
territory that is less than good. Although
we did it to ourselves, the pain is no
less. Whether bad things that happened were
out of our control or we brought it on
ourselves by a bad choice, it comes with
discomfort. It is at times like this that
we need clear, plano (no prescription to
change the clarity of the view) lenses—to
see life as it really is. Only then can we
make a right choice that will be
beneficial. Pity parties only exacerbate
our pain and attract others of like mind,
and we feed off of each other to keep the
party going.
Then there
are lenses of hopelessness, also dark
colored lenses that block out the Sonlight.
The situation appears to be totally
irreversible and we may feel “this is my lot
in life.” It could be physical pain or
disability; it could be personal
relationships that have gone awry; it could
be serious needs that we can’t see how to
meet, or anything else that makes us feel
like it is a life sentence to live/feel this
way. I am not at all referring to real
physical conditions that need and will
respond to remediation, but sometimes there
are incidences that are beyond medical help
and just have to be endured.
Let me stop
here and inject 1 Corinthians 10:13.
“There hath no
temptation taken you but such as is common
to man: but God is faithful, who will not
suffer you to be tempted above that ye are
able, but will with the temptation also make
a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear
it.”
God is
faithful! There are two threads of thought
here: Escape it or bear it. Whether the
way is made to completely escape the
hopeless situation or we are left in it—the
Lord is still faithful. He will never leave
us in a place that will destroy us; but He
will deliver us from it or give us grace and power to
bear it—and use it for His glory and our
good either way.
Folks with
debilitating illnesses or disabilities know
what it is to “bear it.” Some of the most
humble, outspoken voices for Christ are in
the “bear it” category. They don’t look
through dark lenses of hopelessness; they
rejoice that the Lord is always faithful and
their view reaches beyond this life. They
know what it is to have a personal
relationship with the “God of all comfort”
who not only comforts them but allows them
to comfort others who need it.
“Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord
Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the
God of all comfort Who comforteth us in all
our tribulation, that we may be able to
comfort them which are in any trouble, by
the comfort wherewith we ourselves are
comforted of God” (2 Corinthians 1:13, 14).
We have an
array of lenses to pick from, and it is our
choice. If our vision is limited to this
life and this time in our lives, we may have
to guard against picking out a pair with
rose color (fantasizing or fooling
ourselves) or maybe a very dark shade,
hoping to hide the ugliness of
un-repented-of sin and its condemnation or a
remedy that we aren’t happy to use to
alleviate it. We may attempt to hide it
from ourselves, but it will not go away
until we have taken it to Calvary where
Jesus has an answer. That remedy is always
available for all who will accept it. In
fact, it is the only successful remedy;
nothing else works.
“Plano”
lenses do not magnify nor diminish the
view. With these clear lenses, we can see
what we should do, which path we should
take; and this view will lead us to Jesus.
We must not allow our vision to be clouded
with unrealistic rose-colored or dark shaded
lenses lest we falter on our way. It has
been marked for us; all we have to do is
follow. Jesus is “The Way,” and the only
Way that leads to life.
“Jesus saith unto him,
‘I am the way, the truth, and the life: no
man cometh unto the Father, but by me’ ”
(John 14:6).
“Because strait is the
gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth
unto life…” (Matthew 7:14).
If we are to be beneficial to
the Kingdom of God in our walk toward
Heaven, it is vitally important that we
continually see Truth through clear lenses
and stay on the right path, because as Paul
said,
“Ye are our epistle [letter] written in our
hearts, known and read of all men” (2
Corinthians 3:2);
we may be the only Bible someone reads.
Jesus also said “Ye are the light of the
world,” and it is His light that illuminates
us. Even those looking through dark-colored
lenses will be able to see The Light (Jesus)
through us.
“And make straight
paths for your feet, lest that which is lame
be turned out of the way; but let it rather
be healed” (Hebrews 12:13).
If our eyes
are healthy, we don’t need to wear
corrective lenses. May we keep our
spiritual eyes in such good health that we
can see our way clearly and mark the path
for those who follow after.
“The light of the body
is the eye: if therefore thine eye be
single, thy whole body shall be full of
light” (Matthew 6:22).
Let us be
bright lights, as Jesus is reflected through
us!
~~Delores~~ |